All the time things don’t happen as we want. We should be decent enough to handle this reality, staying in illusion would only hurt. It’s self harmful to give emotional reaction in any situation which is against our will.
May be your emotional reaction to certain situation can trouble someone’s life physically or mentally; someone wgo loves and care for you. Don’t let your darkness influence others life either they like you or not. Stay calm and kind in this unfair and unkind world.